Just venting a little...

This happened about a month ago...but is still fresh on my mind...

My husband went and saw a mutual friend of ours for lunch one day. Now neither of us had met his new wife. A few weeks before Robert met them for lunch I had e-mailed them on their myspace just saying that I couldn't wait to meet his wife and that we should all get together soon. At lunch the wife says to Robert "We should get together so I can meet your wife, so she will stop e-mailing us on myspace about meeting me". I had only emailed her once. I was just trying to be nice so that she wouldn't feel left out since the rest of us have known each other for years. It really hurt my feelings. I went out of my way to make sure she knew that we wanted to meet her and get to know each other. She has never met me and now she says this to my husband. I felt that it was a rude and unnecessary comment. Now that they are actually talking about getting together I don't even want to.

What do you think? Do you think it was rude or should I just blow it off and go hang out like nothing ever happened?

~Crys